Christian-ish | Week 5
SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION
Opening Questions:
- How do you think the church has historically handled discussions about sex?
- Has it been helpful or harmful?
Key Scriptures:
Additional Scriptures:
Key Takeaways:
THE SYMPTOMS OF OVERREACTION…
- SCRAPS THE GIFT: Overreaction is an enemy of God’s redemption. The church often overreacts to cultural issues around sex, leading to unhealthy attitudes.
- SILENCES THE CONVERSATION: Open communication about sex and relationships is crucial, both in marriages and with children.
- SHAMES THE DESIRE: Sex is a gift from God, designed to be celebrated within the context of marriage.
- SCORNS THOSE THAT HAVE FAILED: Shame often accompanies sexual topics in the church, but God offers redemption and healing.
Discussion Questions:
- How can we strike a balance between upholding biblical standards for sex while avoiding harmful overreactions?
- We mentioned that “sin thrives in secrecy.” How can we create a church culture that encourages openness and honesty about struggles with sexual sin?
- What are some practical ways married couples can work on improving intimacy and communication about sex?
- How can parents approach conversations about sex with their children in a healthy, biblical way?
- Discuss the concept of mutual responsibility in marriage regarding sexual intimacy. How does this align with or challenge your current views?
- How can single people honor God with their sexuality while navigating a culture that often has very different values?
Practical Applications:
- For married couples: Set aside time this week to have an open, honest conversation about your sex life. Discuss areas of satisfaction and potential improvement.
- For parents: Plan age-appropriate conversations with your children about God’s design for sex and relationships. Consider resources that might help guide these discussions.
- For everyone: Reflect on any areas of sexual sin or shame in your life. Spend time in prayer, asking God for healing and redemption in these areas.
- Commit to studying biblical passages about sex and relationships to deepen your understanding of God’s design.
- If you’re struggling: If you are struggling with sexual sin or the effects of past experiences, consider seeking counsel from a trusted pastor or Christian counselor.
