“PROUD OF THE WRONG THINGS”

Small Group Discussion

Key Takeaways:

1. An arrogant church celebrates what it should be mourning.
2. We often protect relationships over righteousness.
3. Many choose niceness over courage in difficult conversations.
4. We confront to heal, not to cancel.

Discussion Questions:

1. We mentioned that the church in Corinth was tolerating sexual immorality. How do you see similar issues in today’s church culture?
2. Reflect on the statement: “Real love doesn’t ignore sin because sin is like cancer. It spreads, it hardens, it normalizes, and it destroys.” How have you seen this play out in your own life or in the lives of others?
3. We emphasized the difference between being a peacekeeper and a peacemaker. How can we be peacemakers in our relationships and church community without. How do you feel about the concept of church principles as described in the sermon? What are the potential benefits and challenges?
4. “God can’t heal what you conceal.” How does this statement challenge you personally?
5. Discuss the difference between being “friendly” and being a true friend according to the sermon. How can we be better friends to fellow believers?

Practical Applications:

1. This week, practice speaking truth in love to a fellow believer if you see them struggling with sin. Remember to approach the conversation with humility and compassion.
2. Reflect on areas in your own life where you might be tolerating or Commit to bringing these before God in prayer and seeking accountability.
3. Look to a trusted Christian friend or mentor and ask them 2 questions about how they have overcome hard moments through relying on their faith.
4. Look for opportunities to be a PEACEMAKER rather than a PEACEKEEPER in your relationships this week. This might involve having a difficult but necessary conversation.

Closing Prayer:

Lord, help us to be a pure Your holiness and love. Give us the courage to confront sin in our lives and in our community, always with the goal of restoration and healing. Help us to be peacemakers who speak the truth in love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.