Bricks or Sticks | Week 2

Bricks or Sticks | Steve DeFrain | “Not So Fast”

Bible Passages/Key Points:

Jeremiah 17…The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?

Song of Songs 2… 

She

1 I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys.

He

Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the young women.

She

Like an appletree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Let him lead me to the banquet hall, and let his banner over me be love. Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love. His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me. Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Listen! My beloved! Look! Here he comes, leaping across the mountains,
bounding over the hills. My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag. Look! There he stands behind our wall, gazing through the windows, peering through the lattice. 10 My beloved spoke and said to me, “Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, come with me. 11 See! The winter is past;
the rains are over and gone. 12 Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come, the cooing of doves is heard in our land. 13 The fig tree forms its early fruit; the blossoming vines spread their fragrance. Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.”

He

14 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet,
and your face is lovely. 15 Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.

She

16 My beloved is mine and I am his; he browses among the lilies. 17 Until the day breaks and the shadows flee, turn, my beloved, and be like a gazelle or like a young stag on the rugged hills.

Take TIME in your relationship…

(POINT ONE) The time of PERFECTION

Ecclesiastes 3…There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:

Song of Solomon 2… 

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my beloved among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste. Let him lead me to the banquet hall, and let his banner over me be love. Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love. His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me. Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Listen! My beloved! Look! Here he comes, leaping across the mountains, bounding over the hills. My beloved is like a gazelle or a young stag. Look! There he stands behind our wall gazing through the windows, peering through the lattice. 10 My beloved spoke and said to me,  “Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, come with me.

Song of Solomon 2…Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken loveuntil it so desires.

Limit your TIME 

Limit your TALK

Limit your TOUCH

(POINT TWO) The time of PREPARATION

Song of Songs 2…11 See! The winter is past; the rains are over and gone. 12 Flowers appear on the earth; the season of singing has come, the cooing of doves is heard in our land. 13 The fig tree forms its early fruit; the blossoming vines spread their fragrance. Arise, come, my darling; my beautiful one, come with me.”

(POINT THREE) The time of PROOFING 

Song of Songs 2…

He…14 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely.15 Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom.

2 Corinthians 6… 14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 

Key Points:

  • Summarize the main points or key messages of the sermon.
  • Highlight any memorable quotes or phrases from the sermon.

Scriptural Foundation:

  • Discuss the Bible passage(s) that were the basis of the sermon.
  • Explore the context and significance of the chosen scripture.

Personal Reflection:

  • Share your personal thoughts and feelings about the sermon.
  • How did the sermon impact you? What resonated with you?
  • Were there any moments of conviction, inspiration, or clarity?

Discussion Questions:

List a set of open-ended questions to facilitate discussion. These questions can help attendees engage with the sermon’s content on a deeper level.

Example questions:

1. What do you think the Steve’s main message or takeaway was from the sermon?

2. How does the scripture relate to the sermon’s message?

3. Were there any practical applications or actionable insights that stood out to you?

4. Did the sermon challenge any of your beliefs or perspectives?

5. How can we apply the sermon’s teachings in our daily lives?

Group Sharing:

  • Encourage participants to share their thoughts, questions, or personal experiences related to the sermon.
  • Create an open and respectful environment for discussion.

Additional Resources:

  • Provide information about any recommended books, articles, or further readings related to the sermon’s topic.
  • Mention upcoming events or opportunities for Group members to explore the sermon’s theme further.

Conclusion:

  • Summarize the key takeaways from the discussion.
  • Emphasize the importance of applying the sermon’s teachings in daily life.
  • Announce any follow-up actions or future discussions related to the sermon.

Closing Prayer:

  • Take the time to ask members of the Group if they have any prayer requests.
  • Conclude the discussion with a brief prayer, asking for guidance and wisdom in applying the sermon’s message to be on mission.

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