Small Group Discussion

Key Takeaways: “WHY ENEMIES?”

1. ENEMIES INDICATE YOU’RE HUMAN: Enemies are inevitable for humans, even for those following God.
2. ENEMIES VALIDATE YOUR VALUE: The presence of enemies can validate our value and importance.
3. ENEMIES CREATE A GREAT TEST FOR US: We should respond to enemies by trusting God, not retaliating. Forgiveness is crucial for our own freedom, not just for others. Reacting, retaliating, and resenting lead to losing peace, protection, and perspective.

Discussion Questions:

1. We mentioned that having enemies is normal and even expected as a Christian. How does this perspective challenge or affirm your own views on dealing with opposition?
2. The sermon highlighted that enemies can actually validate our value. Can you think of a time when opposition in your life signaled that you were doing something significant or worthwhile?
3. How do you typically respond when faced with enemies or opposition? Do you tend to react, retaliate, or resent?
4. We emphasized trusting God instead of fighting our own battles. What makes this approach challenging in real-life situations?
5. The sermon referenced Psalm 23:5 – “You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.” How does this image of dining peacefully while surrounded by enemies speak to you?
6. What stood out to you most from the examples of Jesus and other biblical figures dealing with enemies?

Practical Applications:

1. Practice the “Don’t React, Don’t Retaliate, Don’t Resent” approach this week when faced with opposition or criticism.
2. Identify an area of unforgiveness in your life. Take steps to release that bitterness, understanding that forgiveness benefits you more than the other person.
3. When you encounter opposition this week, pause and ask yourself: “How might this be validating my value or the importance of what I’m doing?”
4. Memorize Romans 12:19 – “Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord.”
5. Write a prayer asking God to help you trust Him more fully when dealing with enemies or opposition in your life.