My Circle | Week 2

My Circle | Steve DeFrain | “Be Picky”

Bible Passages/Key Points:

“Be Picky”  

Proverbs 12…26 The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.

Proverbs 13:20…Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.

1 Corinthians 15… 33 Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

Numbers 13… 26 They came back to Moses and Aaron and the whole Israelite community at Kadesh in the Desert of Paran. There they reported to them and to the whole assembly and showed them the fruit of the land. 27 They gave Moses this account: “We went into the land to which you sent us, and it does flow with milk and honey! Here is its fruit. 28 But the people who live there are powerful, and the cities are fortified and very large. We even saw descendants of Anak there. 29 The Amalekites live in the Negev; the Hittites, Jebusites and Amorites live in the hill country; and the Canaanites live near the sea and along the Jordan.” 30 Then Caleb silenced the people before Moses and said, “We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it.” 31 But the men who had gone up with him said, “We can’t attack those people; they are stronger than we are.” 32 And they spread among the Israelites a bad report about the land they had explored.

Numbers 14… 24 But because my servant Caleb has a different spirit and follows me wholeheartedly, I will bring him into the land he went to, and his descendants will inherit it.

5 SPIRITS TO LOOK FOR…

(POINT ONE) SERIOUSNESS

2 Corinthians 6… 14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 

(POINT TWO) SURRENDER

1 Corinthians 15… 10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them—yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me. 

1 John 2…We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person.But if anyone obeys his word, love for God[a] is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did.

(POINT THREE) SHARPENING

Proverbs 27…17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.

(POINT FOUR) SUBMISSION

Proverbs 27…Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.

(POINT FIVE) SPEECH

Proverbs 18… 20 From the fruit of their mouth a person’s stomach is filled; with the harvest of their lips they are satisfied. 21 The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Philippians 2… 14 Do everything without grumbling or arguing, 15 so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky 

Key Points:

  • Summarize the main points or key messages of the sermon.
  • Highlight any memorable quotes or phrases from the sermon.

Scriptural Foundation:

  • Discuss the Bible passage(s) that were the basis of the sermon.
  • Explore the context and significance of the chosen scripture.

Personal Reflection:

  • Share your personal thoughts and feelings about the sermon.
  • How did the sermon impact you? What resonated with you?
  • Were there any moments of conviction, inspiration, or clarity?

Discussion Questions:

List a set of open-ended questions to facilitate discussion. These questions can help attendees engage with the sermon’s content on a deeper level.

Example questions:

1. What do you think the Steve’s main message or takeaway was from the sermon?

2. How does the scripture relate to the sermon’s message?

3. Were there any practical applications or actionable insights that stood out to you?

4. Did the sermon challenge any of your beliefs or perspectives?

5. How can we apply the sermon’s teachings in our daily lives?

Group Sharing:

  • Encourage participants to share their thoughts, questions, or personal experiences related to the sermon.
  • Create an open and respectful environment for discussion.

Additional Resources:

  • Provide information about any recommended books, articles, or further readings related to the sermon’s topic.
  • Mention upcoming events or opportunities for Group members to explore the sermon’s theme further.

Conclusion:

  • Summarize the key takeaways from the discussion.
  • Emphasize the importance of applying the sermon’s teachings in daily life.
  • Announce any follow-up actions or future discussions related to the sermon.

Closing Prayer:

  • Take the time to ask members of the Group if they have any prayer requests.
  • Conclude the discussion with a brief prayer, asking for guidance and wisdom in applying the sermon’s message to be on mission.

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